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Below are questions which turn up and are asked occasionally about the LOVE MATCH COMPATIBILITY REPORT, which will help to shed some light on some questions pertaining to compatibility, planets, signs, aspects, and overall synastry - how your charts compare to one another - in general. 

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You can ask me questions which are technical or instructional in nature about comparing birth charts for love and compatibility, and I'll answer you as well as perhaps add them to the questions below. 

Question: are libras and leos good for each other.  Answer: Yes, they are very good. Libra's social skills give air to the enthusiastic qualities of a Leo.  If your birthdays are within a 7 degree "orb" - distance from an exact aspect -  from this sextile (60 degrees - or every other sign creates a sextile aspect, in general), then this is a very good match.  For instance, if your date of birth is August 10th and the other person's date of birth is October 10th, this forms an exact sextile, which gives your Sun Signs a strong compatibility.  Remember that the Moon, Venus, Mars, Ascendant, through Pluto are also compared to each other as well as any planet which "aspects" another.  The combinations and aspects vary with each couple being compared to find their LOVE RATING, which is part of the LOVE MATCH COMPATIBILITY REPORT.
 

The LOVE MATCH COMPATIBILITY REPORT   measures compatibility, and that the decision to love each other, is up to you.  Compatibility is the ability for you to be able to co-exist harmoniously, and some of the challenging aspects might not be as evident unless the two of you co-exist, or living together, or have known each other on a personal or intimate level, for 2-3 years or more. This is how long, at the minimum, that it may take to get to know one another.

The LOVE MATCH COMPATIBILITY REPORT saves you the time of finding out a lot of these things ahead of time, before you make an emotional investment to someone with whom you have a physical, emotional, mental, or even platonic relationship.

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Question: What if the LOVE RATING in the Love Match Report is only 70% - 65% or less?

Answer: You should get a Progressed Love Match Report, because if you are seeking a long-term relationship, it is mostly very compatible at 75% or higher.   Less than that, such as 65%, shows you both need to put more effort into the relationship and you will find more emotional, mental, spiritual and personality conflicts as time goes on.  Not all incompatible elements are noticeable at first when you first start dating or are together for the first 2 years.  Some psychologists say that it takes 3 years to get to know someone.  If you’re not together all of the time for those 3 years, it will take longer to determine for yourself whether or not this person relates well to you, gives you what you want or need in a relationship and in your opinion, is able to co-exist harmoniously with you for a long-term commitment or partnership

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Question: Me and my boyfriend have broken up because I have relocated. He is a Scorpio and I a Leo. I just wanted to know whether he will come back to me. Are we compatible?

Answer: Usually, no...Scorpio and Leo are not compatible. However, this is just the Sun Sign compatibility, and your Moon, Venus, Mars, etc, is also a factor in this. I suggest that you get the Love Match Report at http://www.astrologymatch.com/love2008.htm to see how and where you do get along and if this has physical attraction, emotional harmony, and more.

Question: I just wanted to know is there any way that a Leo woman can bring changes into a Scorpio man? Is there just physical attractions between our two signs or could it be real love? Out of the two who is most willing to compromise first?

Answer: A strong Scorpio man or woman is one who will not be changed by anyone, no matter what sign that person is. It could be true love, physical attraction, or both. It depends on other factors besides the sun signs. Leo and Scorpio are both the same when it comes to compromising. It depends on who has less fixed signs in their chart.

Question: So you're basically saying that me and my ex are not at all compatible? Should I just give up on this Scorpio man? Thank you so much.

Answer: You're very welcome. You may be compatible in other areas, but what isn't are your Sun Signs, usually. Your Moon, Venus, Mars, Mercury, Rising Signs are all part of the compatibility analysis. Yes, it is a very important piece of the love rating, but if your Sun signs are strongly incompatible, but the rest of your charts are very compatible, your overall compatibility may be favorable. Many sun signs are not compatible, but the sun sign just shows how you express yourself and shows a lot about your basic personality. Your Moon tells you how you are emotionally. If your Moon is in Scorpio and his Sun is in Scorpio, this would benefit the compatibility with your ex. I would not give up on him. I would get a Love Match Report to tell you the entire description of whether or not it has potential to be good, fair, very bad, or the best. If you are trying to salvage this relationship or see if it would be a good idea to try to pursue a relationship with him, you need to look deeper than the sun signs. That is what the Love Match Report does, and it is about 25 pages long. You can read more about this at http://www.astrologymatch.com/love2008.htm

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Question:  I am a Gemini sun with Cancer rising and my bf is Sagittarius sun with Cancer rising- does this seem like it is worth a try?    Thanks for any help!  PS- I order from you a lot and I really trust your opinion!

Answer:  Opposites attract, so being attracted to a Sagittarius is normal for you, and having Cancer rising makes it compatible in that you see the world and the world sees you through similar eyes. And, it also means that you would tend to be looking for Capricornian types of mates...those who are stable and perhaps financially secure. You could be compatible, and at least the Love Match Report wouldn't find these attributes to be a negative part of your compatibility, and since you ordered a report, you'll be able to see how the other planets and positions in your charts compare to each other. This will tell the picture in a more complete way.

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Question: When we use our current location, instead of a birth location for one or both of us, how does this effect the report? Also, would it be better for me to send my exact birthtime and location, even if I'm not sure of his?

Answer: The standard practice in the Progressed Love Match Report is to progress the natal chart for the birth location. However, if you want me to relocate to your present location, I can do this at your request, because there are some who feel that you can get good insight to by relocating the progressed chart to your current location, as you would a solar return, but there again is a huge difference in techniques since the yearly solar return depends on the current planetary positions to place around the person's return of the position of their Sun as it was at the moment of their birth, whereas the progressed charts use one day for one year in the ephemeris, which lists all of the planets' positions for any given day. 
           I’ve compared progressing my own chart to my birth location, current residence, and somewhere 3000 miles away and only found that the chart wheel differed by approximately 30 degrees. So, perhaps sticking with the traditional trend of using the birth place is the way to go, which you can tell me how you want to proceed. The difference will be the description of the descendant, the 7th house cusp, which might be different if the location is really far away, as show in my own example. And, some of the planets in each others’ houses may change a little.
           The best method is to use the best time of birth that you do know, and if not, to use sunrise for that date and location, which my computer will calculate accurately. Secondly, it would be a more confident move to choose the birth location for the progressed chart, since this is the most traditional and accepted technique used for progressing the charts.
           Even without having his exact time of birth, his planets' positions will be very close, except for the position of the rising sign and descendant. The Love Rating, which summarizes the aspects between his planets and yours will still be around 95% accurate, because only a small portion of the rising sign (Ascendant) may end up in the calculating of the Planets in Aspects section between your charts.
          You can order your Progressed Love Match at http://www.astrologymatch.com/progressed-lovematch.htm  and email me at the same time to let me know what technique you would prefer.

Your COMPOSITE ROMANTIC REPORT and Your LOVE MATCH COMPATIBILITY REPORT: What are the Differences?
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Question: i would like to have a composite chart done as i am very intrigued by this type of chart as i have never heard of it before. i have only heard of synastry charts between a couple. What is the difference and what can a composite chart show that a synastry chart cannot??

Answer: Your Composite Romantic Report takes your two birth (natal) charts, combines them, and the middle point between the two charts, which creates a unique chart called the composite chart. It's use is to show your relationship as one instead as individuals, as does the Love Match Report, which compares Sun to Sun, Sun to Moon, etc. In the Composite Romantic Report, it is explained and demonstrated in the sample report. Instead of comparing the two charts, it combines them to form one entity, and shows how the two of you will likely encounter the areas of life together differently because you are together, whereas if you were separate and not together, your attitude and actions for the same area of life and day to day activities would result in you doing things differently. In my Composite chart with my husband, we have strong homing and domestic qualities, and this is very true. Since we got together, 19 years ago, we almost immediately felt very comfortable and natural by staying home more often. The Gemini and Leo traits together created the Cancer energy, which is home and nurturing. We're both like Mr. Moms with our girls and automatically do the domestic chores in a very synchonized way. The Composite Romantic Report is an excellent way to see how the two of you will be long-term or even short (depending on how compatible you are - see the DETAILS and SAMPLE for your LOVE MATCH COMPATIBILITY REPORT ) as a couple in all areas of life. In addition, your relationship together may demonstrate that your goals have entirely changed, as is described in the Nodes part of the Composite Romantic Report. It shows what your shared mission is, and as is shown in the Composite Romantic Report page, "The longer we are in a relationship with a particular person, the more these two energies come into our conscious awareness. In addition, the Nodes represents a special way you can build your relationship together. They point to certain themes that must be nurtured. This helps keep weeds of discontent and frustration from growing. The Nodes are a path to solidifying your sense of closeness. The Nodes are not described in this kind of light in the LOVE MATCH COMPATIBILITY REPORT.

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Question: "I DON'T KNOW HIS TIME OF BIRTH. HOW COULD I GET AN ACCURATE READING FOR THIS WITHOUT HIS TIME OF BIRTH?"

Answer: "Without the exact time of birth, the houses, rising and Moon sign will be different, but the Love Rating will or may be different 5-7%. I use sunrise for the time of birth, as statistically, most people were born during the morning hours.   
His planets will still be in your houses - areas of your life - correctly. His Moon and Ascendant may be different, but the aspects, which show how you interact emotionally, mentally, physically (attraction, etc), will be very close. You will still get a very good idea of this relationship without the exact time of birth. Having your time of birth is the most important time anyway, since how he relates to you in areas of your life is what you also will have.

Question: What sign is Best for Scorpio?
Answer: Pisces and Cancer are the best. The second best are Capricorn, Taurus & Virgo.  Your Love Match Compatibility Report is over 20 pages long and tells you details which are much more extensive than the Sun sign compatibility. It measures the Love Rating to determine the chances of Love Success for You!

Question: "What if the Love Rating is below 70%, but I really like this guy?"

Answer: "If the report has a poor rating, then at least you see where things may be headed, and if you really like him, you know where the pitfalls may be and can try to offset them when they occur. Sometimes, the feelings which are compatible come out quicker than the incompatible aspects, which are felt later on once the relationship has had time to settle down. "

QUESTION: "In the PLANETS IN ASPECT section of my Love Match Compatibility Report, it uses the terms "if afflicted in your chart" or "if unafflicted" ...
ANSWER: In reference to these statements in your Love Match Compatibility Report, "planet is favorable or not", and referring to the terms "afflicted" or "unafflicted", your Love Match Report doesn't show what is in each of your individual charts, but tells you this if you wanted to take this more bit by bit and refine it further.

This information is used for further study of the two charts, in which your Complete Natal Chart will show if the aspects in your birth chart are "afflicted", meaning bad, difficult, challenging, etc. or "unafflicted". It is there if the client wants to know more but needs to use their birth charts to see that. Unless you want to get all of your birth aspects together as well as the other person, you can disregard this, because it doesn't change the summary of the report itself. The Love Rating takes all of this into consideration. If you want to look deeper by going into your aspects, you can, but astrology can go on and on and by not doing that, you can still get the overall picture and summary of what the report is trying to tell you, and that is, whether or not your relationship has a good potential to succeed.

In order for me to dissect your charts for the list of aspects and apply it to this report, it would take time for me to do it and then you'd have to pay for a retainer in order for me to do this for you. I can still send you the list of aspects for each of your charts for a nominal fee and then you can look at all of this as well. All of these extra looks are time consuming and I've tried to make the report as affordable and complete as possible. I can do this extra investigation into your birth charts' aspects so that you can know whether or not they are "afflicted" or not, and this is at a rate of $60 per hour, as is the retainer accounts I offer (minimum rate of $60).

You still will know now whether or not you have a good chance of success with the other person, as well as many more details you didn't know before you got your Love Match Compatibility Report.

Again, you can ignore the terms which refer to the "afflictions" in the PLANETS in ASPECTS" section, because this is an extension of the synastry between you and the other, in which it is purely an option should you want to refine the Love Match Report.
You can ask me for the list of aspects for a nominal fee (this is once you've purchased the Love Match Report), and the aspects which are harmonious or inharmonious, afflicted or unafflicted, negative or positive,

Questions: is a taurus with a scorpio ascendant compatible with a sagittarius with a libra ascendant: Answer: You're elements are of all four - earth, water, fire and air.  Unless your Moons, Venus and Mars signs are strongly and well aspected to the Sun and Rising signs (Ascendants), this could spell disaster!  Get a LOVE MATCH COMPATIBILITY REPORT to be sure!

My bf is Leo and I am Virgo. Are we compatible and can we make a marriage work?  Answer: Your Sun Signs will show that you express yourselves totally differently, and you would need to have your Moon, Venus or Mars in Leo and he could have his Moon, Venus or Mars in Virgo, which would greatly increase your chances.  The LOVE MATCH REPORT would tell you these details.  But, your Sun Signs are typically not a good match for a lasting marriage.

CAn virgos and libras be lovers? Answer: Yes, but you better hope that the physical attraction between the two of you have Venus and Mars in both of those signs, otherwise the fling will be a one night affair! Get a LOVE MATCH COMPATIBILITY REPORT to be sure!
 

My bf is a Pisces (May 17,71 and i'm a SAG(Dec.6,71). Do we match, Pam??  Answer: Unfortunately, your Love Rating, which you can get a better understanding of at the Love Match Report page, is at 50%.  50% to 59%: This level is close to the national average for divorce. It doesn't mean that a separation may occur, but true love may not come as easy and the physical and romantic attraction may not last. There must be a strong spiritual presence and desire to want to make the love, friendship or business relationship last. Closure from past problems may seem impossible, but it is attainable. A good counselor or medium can help resolve issues. There is a possibility that this type of relationship is one where the partners are together for the sake of loyalty or children, if they are involved. An understanding of each other needs to be reached to maintain harmony in the home or work place, even though compatibility may be weak. In matters of friendship and business, know what each of you expect out of the relationship. Trust might need to be proven. If misunderstandings arise, communication and the willingness to pursue common goals has to remain the focus. Respect and honesty have to be maintained.

IS A CAPRICORN AND A TAURUS COMPATIBLE?  Yes, Very Much So!! They are both very grounded, at least by their Sun Signs, and can make a lot of money together!

Question: IF YOU AND YOU GUY FRIEND HAVE BEEN DATING FOR SOMETIME NOW AND HE'S ALL OF A SUDDEN WANTS YOU WITH HIM ALL THE TIME IS THAT LOVE? AND WHAT IF HE SEEMS TO BE ON THE PHONE WITH HIS EX WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?  Answer: Sometimes, we are too close to the issue to be objective, and who says that love is an objective issue anyway?  I would have to tell you that in this case, plain common sense comes in.  It seems to me that he wants to be with the both of you and that if you want him exclusively, he would not be talking with his ex-wife.  If it is truly over between them, he would not have a reason to talk to her.   Best of luck you.   Get an Emailed Reading from Me for More Details! Pam